Denys Guilber Galindo-Salke - Online Memorial Website

My name is Sara E Hardin and I am the Aunt of Baby Denys.  Baby Denys was a blessing from the beginning.  Kelli his mother was at the Dr.'s getting ready to have a procedure to see how bad her cervical cancer cells had grown.  All Kelli thought of after she heard the news about what was happening to her, was that she would never be able to have a baby.  I told my mother to have the Dr. check and make sure she wasn't pregnant because she was about 3 weeks late on having her period, but this could've been due to the cancer cells.  About 10 minutes later the phone rang and my mother said "They can't do the Dye Test today," and I said "Why whats wrong mom" she said " SHE'S PREGNANT".  I was so excited because her worst fear of not becomming a mommy was over.  My baby girl was going to be a mommy!   Kelli and my mother came over and we went and told the daddy the great news, he had a smile from one ear to the other.  As the months went on I couldn't keep my hands off her belly.  Her Belly grew bigger every month and I made sure we had the pictures to show it off.  The Mommy was being very carefull and was making sure this baby was safe.  All Kelli wanted was a healthy baby, perferably a boy and in her heart she knew this baby she was carrying was a boy.  We all went to the Dr.'s to hear the heatbeat each month and to see how big and perferct he was, this was the best experience for me due to the fact I had never got to hear my baby's heartbeat for he didnt make it long enough.  Kelli knew this baby boy was going to be spoiled by me and my husband because she and this baby was the answer to our broken hearts.  I was going to be her coach and I was going to be there for the birth of the little boy.  Who would've thought only Five months into the pregnancy he would make his big appereance.  Kelli had been having light back pain for about 5-7 hrs and she didnt know what this was, so wer called the Dr and he said it was nothing and she's be just fine.  I called about 10pm May 1st and told him the pains were about every 7 min and were starting to intensify, he told us to bring her in to calm her mind.  We arived at the Womens Hospital in Evansville around 11pm and all the Dr. did was listen for a heartbeat and told here it was her uterus stretching and sent her home. The time was about 2pm before we left to head home.  We were releaved, but she still said the pain was there and it hadn't let up at all.  I told her when I get you home take it easy and relax hopefully the pains will stop like the Dr said.  It was about 3:45 am the phone rang, all I heard was screaming on the other end.  All she could say was oh my god it's comming out it's comming out, whats comming out I say the baby its comming out I felt it.  She said I was on the toilet because it felt like I had gas, or I needed to have a BM, and when I strained to push I felt something comming out, so I felt and I felt the sack, which at the time she thought was the head.  I called for an ambulance and headed back to her house I got there in about 2 min. I was flying.  We got her to the hospital and all they could say was that she was in pre-term labor and a Dr. would be in to check to see if they could sew her cervix shut and help keep the baby in.  She laid there for over 5 hrs before anyone came in to check her and by this time the cervix had opened up.  The Dr. told us if we had gotten here sooner they could've saved the baby because the cervix could've been stiched shut.  We were there just 4 hours earlier and they didn't even give her a Vaginal Exam.  They told us If they checked all first time mothers due to pain they would have to keep a Dr on staff full time.  Thats a bunch of bull-shit they let our baby die.  He had a heartbeat up untill 2:45 May 3rd when he finally came into the world.  They didn't even try to save him.  He was 20 1/2 weeks along and he could've survived if they would've just tried.  I'm so sorry baby boy for choosing the wrong hospital for your mommy, if I had chosed St Marys you might be here with us today.  I love you and miss you every day.  Keep your eye's on your mommy and give her strength to go on  living, I try but she wants you and only you.  I hope with time her broken heart will be blessed with another baby.